It happens sometimes that difficult and challenging circumstances arrive in your life. Your first response to these circumstances may be to reject or resist them. How often have you thought during such times, if it were not for this person or that situation, my life would be happy and peaceful? A common misunderstanding is to blame others for the problems you are experiencing. Allowing your self to fall into blame and resistance only draws to you more of the same.
Resistance to Difficult People or Circumstances
While you may find it difficult to welcome unwanted circumstances, be aware anything that triggers a negative response within you is a gift. A seemingly difficult circumstance offers a window to your inner world. This window gives you an opportunity to "see" yourself in new ways that are not always readily accessible. A negative reaction to a person or situation brings to light important information that normally lies buried and out of reach. To decode this information, you can begin to look at your reaction and the feelings you are experiencing.
The energies you have drawn to you in the form of a person or situation are reflecting to you some aspect of your self. The Law of Attraction says like attracts like. You draw to you what you are. This is not a judgment. You create every situation in your life as a needed learning experience. Sometimes experiences bring your attention to a way of being, an attitude, belief or thought pattern that no longer serves you in the way it was originally intended. If you draw a person into your life who seems disrespectful, look to see if there's some way in which you are disrespecting yourself. If you find this to be the case, you can follow the thread back through time to understand ways you have not loved yourself as you could have, and ways that you have sabotaged your own efforts. By bringing this pattern into awareness, you can begin to heal it. You do this by transforming your beliefs about your self and what you deserve. This allows you to adopt new ways of being that are more loving and respectful to your self.
Reading the energy that shows up in your life and opening to the messages it offers carries you into the Portal of Transformation where all energies are transmuted to the vibration of love. By entering this portal, you are able to create healing and positive change in your world. Over time, these steps toward healing and wholeness spill over into every aspect of your existence. You radiate the light of this new understanding like a beacon to others who are seeking it. At the same time, you draw to you others who have taken responsibility for their life experience and who understand their role as creator gods. This is the true path of transformation.
When you accept each experience that arrives in your life and welcome the lessons it contains, you walk the path of growth and expansion that will eventually free you from the wheel of suffering and open you to the gifts each moment has to offer.
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Wow... this was just what I needed, when I needed it. Thanks to you!